We started this blog in early 2008 to follow our first pregnancy. After our son was prenatally diagnosed with a Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia (CDH), we turned to the blog to inform friends and family of Baby C's progress. There used to be 100s of posts, but it was overwhelming to sift through, so I've consolidated them into "Carter's Story," which you can read by clicking the link above.

October 7, 2009

Happy FIRST Birthday!


Monkey,

First things first...YOU DID IT! Our goal was to have you tube-free by your first birthday and honestly, just a few weeks ago, I didn't think it would happen. But, you once again amazed us. You decided on Sept. 24 that you no longer needed that old stinking feeding tube and you yanked it out. Since it was 10pm and your Dad was in Mexico, I decided to leave it out and just see if you would eat well the following day, and you did. You've taken off since then, eating and drinking like a champ! We are so proud of you. It's hard to believe that less than 2 months ago, your G-tube surgery was scheduled and here you are, tube free for 2 weeks!

Although we took a little detour to bringing you home, I wouldn't change a thing about the past year. Everything that happened has made us the family we are today. You have accomplished more in your first year of life than many will in their entire lives. You have touched so many people--so many more than we'll ever know about. Your story provides hope to families diagnosed with CDH every day. We are truly blessed to be your parents.
It's hard to even look back to that day a year ago and remember what it was like--the terror, the uncertainty, the excitement. We wanted you to stay put, because you were safe as long as you were in my belly, but we couldn't wait to meet you and see what your journey would be like. Thankfully, you have my determination (Daddy calls it a temper, but I prefer determination) and you showed those Doctors who was boss! You fought so hard to live and we'll forever be grateful to you and to God for that.

As of your first birthday you:
  • are pulling to a stand and cruising

  • are saying mama, dada, baba, ey (hey), ey baybay (hey baby?), nighnigh (night-night)

  • are commando crawling and rocking on all fours

  • are sleeping through the night, on your tummy, with your book (Peek-A-Who)

  • have 8 teeth

  • love chicken nuggets, grilled cheese, and apples (apple sauce, apple yogurt, apple cereal bars...you get the idea)

  • when you wake up on the morning, we hear you squealing with delight, then you climb up to a stand and bang on the wall, laughing and talking, until we come in to get you

  • weigh 21 pounds and are somewhere around 29-30 inches long

  • are obsessed with opening and closing doors, especially when Lucy is outside. She's such a good dog--she just stands there waiting for one of us to rescue her and let her inside before you close the door in her face and laugh

  • have drank water from Lucy's bowl and eaten several pieces of dog food

  • are trying to climb out of your crib, which scares the beejeezus out of me
A year ago today, you:
  • weighed 7 pounds, 3 ounces
  • were 22 inches long
  • breathed with the assistance of a ventilator
  • were on many, many medications
  • received your nutrition via TPN in an IV

We look forward to what the next year brings, although we're hoping you haven't been told about the Terrible Twos and Threes. :) The fight that we've seen in you to live, breathe on your own, eat on your own, overcome developmental delays...I hope it never disappears. I hope you have that much spunk and fight in you throughout your life (even though that probably means that your Dad and I are really in for it).

Love you bunches,
Mommy, Daddy & Lulu

25 deep thoughts:

Rebecca said...

Love this post, Love Carter, and Love you guys! Thanks for sharing this past year with all of us!

Jen said...

Happy 1st Birthday, Carter! You sure do have a lot of spunk, and it's served you well!! Here's to the next year being SO.MUCH.EASIER!!!!

Ashley & Jessica Singletary said...

Happy 1st Birthday sweet boy! I can't type much more because well I can't see through all the tears.... We love you with our hearts!

Anonymous said...

Happy 1st Birthday Carter :)

Dear6993 said...

Happy Birthday, Carter! You are amazing, and have a wonderful story that has touched people in many corners of the world! Keep up the great work! And you have two equally amazing parents! God Bless you all as you celebrate this big day!

Karen Dear - Elk River, MN

Kathryn Olmstead said...

I love how caring you are towards baby andrew's family! I didn't stand a chance reading your blog post. First you started with asking all to pray for baby Andrew! then something about your post just made me an emotional wreck! Maybe it's because Carter is tube free, one year old, and has already overcome more than most in life.

Sorry I'm quite emotional lately!!!

Happy first birthday Carter.

And to you mommy and daddy, you have overcome more than most parents will ever have to. So Happy first year of Carter's life! :)

Amy Corinne said...

Happy birthday Carter! You rock.

holly said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Holly, Chris, and Ruby

Susan said...

Happy 1st birthday Carter from your ECIM family. You are a real fighter and adorable as well.
Susan

Timothy and Jenny said...

Happy First Birthday Carter!! Congratulations on being tube free, such a BIG accomplishment. You have an amazing story, I am so glad that Weston has a buddy like you, that you all can grow up together even though we're miles apart.

http://westonsjounery.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

Happy 1st Birthday Carter. You are a big boy and have accomplished so much in a year.

Mary

proudmom said...

Carter,
I am so glad that I found your blog over a year ago. I have followed along the entire time. You have accomplished so much and I am inspired by your innocent strenght. Happy Birthday Sweet Carter, you definately are a rock star.

Brad and Kellie,
Your sense of family and pride are amazing. You have so much to be proud of. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us.

Tracy Meats said...

Beautiful post! Happy 1st Birthday Carter!! You have overcome so much this past year and your determination and fight for life is amazing. You are one adorable little boy and I wish you nothing but the best.

Happy Birthday Carter!
Tracy

Monica~ James~ Connor said...

Happy birthday little Monkey!!! We are so proud of all that you have accomplished in one year & always with that adorable smile. We are proud of your awesome Mommy & Daddy too for their never give up spirit & for always believing you could do it!! We love you so much & hope that we get to see you lots more in the upcoming year...well atleast when you get off of house arrest in the spring! Hope you get all of the cupcakes you want today!
Love, Monica, James & Connor

Gina said...

Carter,
Wyatt and his family send you Birthday Wishes!!! What an amazing journey you have been on this past year with your amazing parents! Happy Birthday!

Shawn said...

Happy birthday Carter!!! We are so happy to see you doing so well!

Liz and Shane said...

Happy Birthday Carter! I remember a year ago being stuck to the computer to read every post about you. Nothing has changed I still am stuck on you. You are truly irresitable! You are so darn cute!

NCBuckeye said...

Carter, make sure your mama & daddy let you listen to my phone message! Happy Birthday, Sweetheart!

Anonymous said...

HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY Carter!!!!! Three cheers!!!! Can't believe a year has flown by since I found your blog. You'll never realize how much you helped our family through our granddaughter's CDH journey. What a great gift to be TUBE FREE! Keep cruising! You are an inspiration.

Your Canadian Watcher
Grandmother to Ava LCDH

Jeane Jones said...

Happy, Happy 1st. Birthday Carter! This proves prayers are answered. I am so happy for you and your MaMa and Daddy. You have been on an adventure none of us can imagine....I thank you for sharing the whole thing. I really look forward to the day I actually get to meet you......God Bless and Keep you.

Anonymous said...

Still follow sweet Baby Carter and your family...congratulations again on a beautiful little boy...and Happy Birthday Carter! Sooooo glad to hear he is doing so well, and tube free, and still keep our office up to date on that little guy! Brad, we want to meet Carter AND Kellie when this flu season gets by...sooooooooo great to hear your good news! Kisses to that sweet boy!
Caren Guthrie, and the Home Health/Hospice Crew at Carteret General!

Megan Larson said...

Wow, I love this post. I love reading all you milestones and seeing how far you have come, baby C. You are truly incredible. Your story HAS inspired many more than you could possibly know! Your mom and dad are so lucky to have you. John hopes you got your present in the mail okay and we all hope that you enjoy all your gifts, material and immaterial. You are truly amazing and we are lucky to know you. Happy birthday, Carter!!!!

Gabi's Journey said...

Sorry for the lateness!!!! Happy Bday Carter! May you share many more happy moments like these! Carter has made such amazing strides! What a little champ!!! I hope u enjoyed your cupcake too, it looks so YUMMY!
Joanna

Sarah said...

Simply Amazing! Happy Birthday you wonderful lil man!

Aep said...

Such great news!!! All great accomplishments in just a year... super star Carter... keeping going big boy!!!
Love the birthday pictures, it looks like it was a great day for all.
Keeping smiling and growing!
Hugs, Ana and Marco